Tuesday, January 15, 2013

A Review of Redeeming Childbirth by Angie Tolpin

"I am a Christian."
"I am pregnant."


Angie Tolpin in Redeeming Childbirth transforms these two seemingly disconnected statements into a stunning picture of what childbearing can be, one of faith, courage, growth, and worship. The point of the book is not to talk about doctors or midwives, meds and hormones, diet and exercise, but to speak about God's purpose in and through birth. With a vision of bringing "every thought captive" to Christ, Angie writes readers through the many fears society has implanted in the concept of birth and communicates the assurance God provides for every expectant mama. Most importantly, she brings together the reality of your faith and the reality of your motherhood. This means that when the world rumors fear, God breathes trust. When others scream pain, God whispers joy. When people recount trauma, God enables praise. 




Her message completely contradicts that which most expectant mothers are going to hear during their pregnancy because her message is one of hope in the Father, the One who designed birth in the first place. She infuses her book with the fact that God did not make birth in vain - nothing about it is pointless - and that He has a unique plan for each Christian mama that will bring her closer to Him. If there were two main words in Redeeming Childbirth, they would be sanctification and worship, for Angie desires to encourage her readers with the truth that God uses the childbearing experience to especially prepare and sanctify mothers into women who can love Him more, serve Him more, and unite with their husbands to train their babies in His way. But this requires surrender and this requires worship. The book takes mamas through areas in which they need to relinquish and trust God for what He will do through them, constantly bringing the reader back to His mercy and love and, above all, purpose.

As a mother of six, Angie has the understanding needed to speak to mums about this. Her understanding is one of wisdom as well as sympathy, for she always has a good word to offer her readers while also knowing the realities of what pregnancy and birth can bring. She is clear about the lies spread by the world and compassionate for the frightened or hurting mom. And her message is full of joy, joy that is found in God and God alone. Therefore, Redeeming Childbirth empowers women to have their babies. Of course, it is not the "empowerment" that most women talk about when it comes to birth, but the real empowerment that the Maker of birth gives to His daughters. Pregnant mumsies are going to leave the book refreshed, encouraged, and prompted to seek their Savior above all.



Topics include the Creator's design of a mamas body for His design in birth, morning sickness, the reason for pain, the importance of community in birth, the blessings and necessity of fatherhood, strengthening marriage during childbearing, sisters and mothers, and much more. There is something for everyone in this book, I promise. Besides sporting a clear and loving tone, Angie washes her writing in Scripture and sprinkles each chapter with sincere prayers for mothers reading it. Supporting this important message is a beautiful layout with sweet pictures that truly makes looking at and pondering on the book an aesthetic delight. Yep. I highly recommend it. Can't you tell?

"But wait, Jenn. Just hold up there. What are you doing reading this? You aren't pregnant - you're not even married!" While this is true (mhm), I can still affirm that reading this book is excellent for young women who do not hear wedding bells ringing in their foreseeable futures. Think about it. If you were going to run a marathon, would you just show up to the race without having gotten physically, not to mention mentally, fit? If you were going to cook a really stupendous dinner, don't think you think you would at least read a Betty Crocker Something? Or say you were going to climb a mountain. You'd definitely get some training in before the ascent. Well, childbearing is like that. Sometime or other, most women are going to have a baby, and it is so important for the Christian to go into it with the confidence in God's will that only He can give. She needs understanding to trust. She needs knowledge to surrender. She needs to comprehend a bit of God's design so she can fulfill this mission with joy in Christ. This book tactfully and honestly brings readers to a better realization of God in pregnancy and labor. It talks about Redeeming Childbirth. Besides, let's be honest, we girls are going to hear a lot about birth before getting married. Or pregnant. And most of it is going to be really negative, coming from a culture of death that does not understand the beauty of birth as part of God's big picture. Why not get a Biblical perspective for a culture of life? Beginning now?



One last thing. Redeeming Childbirth screams Sola Scriptura. Angie has a balanced viewpoint, not balanced in an innocuous way, but balance on Scripture. I just love that about it.

So yeah. Stop reading me and read the book!!! Did I mention it is for sale on Amazon as of today?

Monday, January 14, 2013

Redeeming Childbirth

Hello, my friends! I am breaking the silence to bring you tidings of a marvelous new book on childbirth. Redeeming Childbirth by Angie Tolpin is not about exercise, diets, and breastfeeding. It is about God and you as a mama. It is about the "so much more" of childbearing. The book hits Amazon tomorrow, and I would highly recommend you go and see it for yourself.
Come by here tomorrow for my review of the book!
Here is a bit more information on Redeeming Childbirth to whet your appetite meanwhiles...
...On Pinterest
...On Facebook
...And on the book's beautiful website!

Have a blessed evening (morning), ladies. :)

Wednesday, May 2, 2012

Renewing the Time



Well, it should be decidedly apparent that school and blog have not coincided recently. Sigh. I just cannot see how to write something uplifting about the Soviet Union. Perhaps later you will get a garish report on something or other from that period in history, but for now, relax.

Seriously. Relax.

You see, this post is about something I have learned outside the laptop screen classroom in the past few months: time. If there is one thing about which I do not relax, time has to be it. Have you ever met those planners who schedule their life to the minute or, dare I say, second? You know the type I am sketching. "Can you take a break and read this?" Uh, no. In two and a half minutes I have to start writing that blog post (hehe). "Hey, that school presentation was great! Do you have a sec to answer a question I have?" Hello? I need to be out the door in precisely...now...so, no, I cannot give you a sec.

Yeah, I knew you knew the type.

Because you know me! That is me all over. For the longest time, I thought it was more virtuous to be rigidly scheduled, organizer in hand and day snugly packed into fifteen-minute segments. An airtight chart equaled more productivity, more action, more reward - more. Should we not squeeze as many strikes out of the clock as is remotely possibly for our mortal frames? Is that not the essence of redeeming the time?

If only I realized there was more to life than time. Now, before I go on, I have to disclaim myself. Again. I still use schedules. They are not evil. I still wear a wrist-watch and frequently take a peep at my clock. We still eat dinner at a regular time and wake up by a certain hour. Don't picture me smashing all time-keeping machines, burning planners, and eating bon-bons all day. K? Because there is. Did you know that when this world burns up, time as we generally recognize it will go to Neverland, too? I always knew this in my head, but the repercussions of the concept took a while to dawn on me. If I am living for seconds and minutes, I am living for something that will go down in flames. What lasts is people, the Church, the City of God. What I do for that entity is what truly lasts.

But wait. Do we not need time to dedicate ourselves to an endeavour, including the Church? Yes, we do! We must take advantage of the time allotted us and give it to His will. And, no, I am not contradicting myself. Maybe Greek will make it more clear for you, as it did for me (once more, hehe). Chronos and Kairos. These are the two Greek words for time. Chronos deals with quantity time, the time that goes tick-tock. Think sundials, Big Ben, and kitchen timers. Kairos describes quality time. Imagine a family dinner, a heart-to-heart with a friend, a conundrum on the job that will either enhance your character or tarnish it. Chronos time helps us humans make the best of Kairos time. One is not "bad" and the other "good", the first just facilitates the latter. Nonetheless, many of us are burning out in order to beat the clock rather than embracing the opportunities it happens to offer us. Alert: we cannot squeeze another second out of the tick-tock (Matthew 6:27). We have so many tick-tocks given us and nothing more, no matter how hard we try to get another tick (or tock). Ya get what I am saying?

There is something we can do about opportunities, though. We can waste the circumstances God give us or use them for His glory. In fact, remember those verses, Ephesians 5:15-16? "See then that ye walk circumspectly, not as fools, but as wise, redeeming the time because the days are evil." Well, guess what word is used for time here. Ding ding ding! Kairos, quality time. We are to redeem the opportunities God furnishes us, putting them towards His service. At times, that means sacrificing our little schedule to grasp the bigger picture of what God is doing in His Bride. It means we will have to put our time-chart in God's hands -  yet another area in which to relinquish control - and dispose of time as what it is: God's clock, God's opportunities, gifted to us to further His Kingdom.

My task for Becoming a Fair Lady right now is loosening my grip on the schedule (even though I still use it), and opening it up to God's plans for my life. It echoes Proverbs 16:9, "The heart of man plans his way, but the LORD establishes his steps." Let's plan, but let's plan on that plan being broken for God's glory, and thank Him for it.

So...yeah...That's it. Not a good ending, I know. *Cheesy Grin*


*I would like to thank Dr. Jeff Myers from Summit Ministries for enlightening me on this subject!

Wednesday, March 28, 2012

Love-in-Idleness

Here is yet another happy circumstance when school and blog coincide. Does that ever happen to you?
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Love-in-Idleness, or Heartsease
A few days ago, as I was reading A Midsummer Night's Dream for the I-don't-know-how-many-nth time, the scene where Oberon orders Puck to light the love potion upon the eyes of an unhappy youth struck me with a few new thoughts. I had never payed much attention to this flower juice's name, but during this last reading it jumped out at me: Love-in-Idleness. Interesting name, do you not think? Especially so when you read the results of the potion on Oberon's fairy queen, Titania. She ends up falling for a donkey and makes herself look pretty ridiculous in the process. 


We laugh at her antics, and Puck's, to be sure, but have you ever thought about how we fall for the same thing Titania did? It seems I am often guilty of those very same insanities she showed. Love-in-Idleness caused her to woo a donkey, yet, oh, the hapless things our hearts seek when our loves wander listlessly on, as idle as can be!


We have all heard the saying about the space in our soul only God can fill, the love which only He can give and the satisfaction only He can guarantee. Nevertheless, too many a time, our hearts forget their first Love and become regrettably idle. Purposeless. Doubtful. Hungry. Before we know, we find ourselves grasping after donkeys, just like poor Titania. Granted, most of the time our "donkeys" are not so ludicrous or obvious as is that of the fairy queen, but I am sure to God the idols our idle hearts chase are sorry substitutes for His majesty and love - ludicrous indeed. So, while our lovely selves may not look so silly to friends and family (not to mention us), we probably appear rather absurd to our Heavenly Father, after all He did for us. 


Have you ever paused to consider what "donkeys" are capturing your soul through an idle heart? TV, trashy books, gaudy music, and the "opposite sex" are all commonly cited examples, but Satan usually likes to be slightly more subtle. It may take some time to figure out; it certainly will take me a while!


So what is the remedy to our donkey infatuation? Well, lets wind back towards the love potion that starts all this featherbrained behaviour. Love-in-Idleness. Ahhh....that idle heart of ours. To keep our souls from courting barn animals, the stupor of our hearts must be cured. 


And that cure is Christ. There is no other.


Only when we see Christ for who He is, awesome, beautiful, radiant, glorious, the perfect example of perfect manhood, sovereign, powerful, and loving - in short, when we become infatuated with Him - will our hearts stop their wanderings. Yes, when we behold and treasure Him alone, then all our donkeys will appear as what they really were all along - donkeys. Then shan't they be left in the dust?


Better yet, our souls will not thirst and our hearts will not hunger when His vision becomes our vision. We will enjoy life at its fullest. He will guide your steps and use you for His amazing purpose. Yeah, purpose. No more disillusionment. Instead of Love-in-Idleness, let us take a dosage of Love-in-Life, Christ's life.

Sunday, March 25, 2012

TULIP, Revised for the Modern Reader

   Yesterday was a positively beautiful, rainy day. The morning passed with many words and good fun in the Raimundo household, much to everyone's delight (except I spazzed about the late hour). However, this occurrence is dangerous. Very dangerous, indeed. Just peek at what Daddy started and I finished!
   I know some of my friends will catch the humor of this little acronym, and for those who do not, never fear. I still love you dearly :) So, here is the dangerous result of a pleasantly wet Saturday morning.

          Total Divinity
          Unconditional toleration
          Limited instruction
          Irresistible play
          Passivity of the “Seekers”

True, no? Have a lovely Sunday, friends!